This is not a topic I think about often but when I do I usually end up questioning the nerve of many people. I'll start this post with the 5 rules I have come up with:
1. If you are alone with someone do not make a call unless you ask for permission first. I think it is acceptable to text but no calls. If someone is calling you ask the person you are with if they mind if you answer your call. It can be really awkward to be the person just sitting there while you have no idea who your friend is talking to. Thank goodness not many people I know do this.
2. You're at a party/event at someone else's home and you seclude yourself from the evenings events in order to use the phone all night... This is extremely rude and it makes everyone else think you are not enjoying yourself and would like to be elsewhere.
3. There should be no cell phone use during church, dinner or a movie. Big nono. During times like these your phone should be off or on silent. You can talk to your friends/family later, now is not the time. This is very inappropriate.
4. Using your phone while driving. This can affect multiple parties. If you are in the car with others are you being rude to them by a. ignoring them b. putting them in danger because you are not paying full attention to the road. You are also putting everyone else that you are driving around in danger.
5. During meetings, for school clubs or for work or during class. It is rude but it will only hurt you in the long run because people with look at your negatively and won't take you seriously.
Since cell phones are such a huge part of our life it is easy to forget rules like these because we take our phones for granted and we over use them even when we do not have to. It happens everyone once in a while but you can tell who is oblivious to common courtesy of cell phone use.
I know for a fact that I would complain everyday if I got my cell phone taken away from me. I feel like I wouldn't be able to live without it and I know many people, young and old, feel the same way as I do. Also, I think that cell phones may be another reason teenagers get such a bad reputation. Older people feel like we are always on them and they more likely to notice a lack of manners when people are using cell phones. I'm sure that more older people than young notice things such as cell phone edict. But they do not understand how addicting they can be. I have been growing up in a generation where everyone is constantly connected via phones, internet and so on and it would be extremely difficult for me to give up these connections. I love being able to talk to my friends and family whenever I feel like it. And of course they are handy in emergencies!
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2 comments:
Great blog Liv!
I totally agree with you. Some people can be rude when they're on their cell phones, but it doesn't mean everyone else is. I especially agree with your 2nd rule. If your wtih your friends, who the heck are you texting?!
These are really good rules especially number 3.
It's really annoying to hear cell phone go off in the middle of a movie,or church.
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